3/21-3/23 - Atlantic City
Me, Flawless, K_, S_
Maloney's was awesome, i finally built up the damn courage after like 2 hours of standing to talk to girls, i opened several sets. I feel like my AA has built up from inactivity. One thing that Flawless said was real funny was me walking by and giving this girl a high five to pump my state and open another set. K_ was stuck playing poker 24-7 all trip. S_ had AA. and Flawless was doing his thing as usually runing that game. one thing i also remmeber about this night was the HB10, with some ginormous cleavage! goodness she was so banging hot. i was drooling over her like a dog under a pedastil, really AFC but i didnt mind, i was having fun doing it. i did end up saying a comment to her about her being cute an walked away, which was nothing really, but i'd be damned if i didnt say a single word to the HB10, hottest girl i ever seen. she was stuck in my head for the whole trip.
i made lik 400$ on this trip from poker too. gamewise, i think my AA started to turn around from this trip.
Saturday, May 12, 2007
From Pessimist to Optimist
Mid February 2007
After the party I was high on life, i walked around cheesing with big smiles knowing that I could get girls to like me. I remember reading a post off mASF talking about Asian PUA's. There were several posts that talked about Asian guys not being "sexy" at all to a lot of girls on first approach. I think its an image that the Asian community built of itself with so many losers. I always thought i was a good looking guy, but after the graffiti house party, i knew damn well i was sexy, i had sexy written all over my graffiti shirt. I'm glad i don't have this inner game problem a lot of Asian guys have. My whole perspective on life flipped from normal-no energy-no smile-pessimism to positive energy-happy-smiley-optimism.
I can't believe happiness is controlled solely on how one views life.
After the party I was high on life, i walked around cheesing with big smiles knowing that I could get girls to like me. I remember reading a post off mASF talking about Asian PUA's. There were several posts that talked about Asian guys not being "sexy" at all to a lot of girls on first approach. I think its an image that the Asian community built of itself with so many losers. I always thought i was a good looking guy, but after the graffiti house party, i knew damn well i was sexy, i had sexy written all over my graffiti shirt. I'm glad i don't have this inner game problem a lot of Asian guys have. My whole perspective on life flipped from normal-no energy-no smile-pessimism to positive energy-happy-smiley-optimism.
I can't believe happiness is controlled solely on how one views life.
Graffiti Party
Early Feb 2007
Haha, this party was the best! This was my first house party since getting into the game. I got a huge validation boost and my whole perspective on life changed dramatically after this party. I became a TOTAL OPTIMIST, big smiles and giant generator of positive energy.
A graffiti party is where people wear a white-tee and bring markers and everyone writes stuff on each other's shirts. My shirt read "IOI" all over it! I remember opening one blond chick (HB6) first in the night, she blew me off and said she didn't know who i was. Then i approached a 2-set of girls on the coach looking bored, one of them was busted, the other i'd say maybe HB6, she had huge tits, looked latin, kinda thick; I was attracted to her.
Everything went really well, I remember working this 2-set all night, exiting and returning. The best part with this set was when i spelled out my name in the air with her hand, a lot of kino and I felt like I blew their minds away. I could've gotten laid right there if i had the balls to move in. I remember talking to every single girl at the house party. It was so much fun. There was this one girl i think who was the friend of the HBlatin girl who constantly busting my balls all night, i couldn't win her over at all, it was fun. Later that night after building a lot of social proof with the girls an demonstrating that i was the highest value at the party, the blond chick I first opened actually pulled me over to write on my shirt, girls are funny. I also remember meeting this one chick HB7_Tan. She had a real nice tan and looked really cute.
Haha, this party was the best! This was my first house party since getting into the game. I got a huge validation boost and my whole perspective on life changed dramatically after this party. I became a TOTAL OPTIMIST, big smiles and giant generator of positive energy.
A graffiti party is where people wear a white-tee and bring markers and everyone writes stuff on each other's shirts. My shirt read "IOI" all over it! I remember opening one blond chick (HB6) first in the night, she blew me off and said she didn't know who i was. Then i approached a 2-set of girls on the coach looking bored, one of them was busted, the other i'd say maybe HB6, she had huge tits, looked latin, kinda thick; I was attracted to her.
Everything went really well, I remember working this 2-set all night, exiting and returning. The best part with this set was when i spelled out my name in the air with her hand, a lot of kino and I felt like I blew their minds away. I could've gotten laid right there if i had the balls to move in. I remember talking to every single girl at the house party. It was so much fun. There was this one girl i think who was the friend of the HBlatin girl who constantly busting my balls all night, i couldn't win her over at all, it was fun. Later that night after building a lot of social proof with the girls an demonstrating that i was the highest value at the party, the blond chick I first opened actually pulled me over to write on my shirt, girls are funny. I also remember meeting this one chick HB7_Tan. She had a real nice tan and looked really cute.
Atlantic City Trip 2
Late Jan 28th~: 2-3Days
Atlantic City Trip 2 was again, a lot of fun. The team consisted of me, Flawless and Nir again. This trip was planned out right before school started. We were gonna meet up with some of Flawless's Frostburg friends, 3 doods.
Boy was this trip a memorable one. I remember frame battles all over the place. People busting out peacocking hats, other people cracking jokes about them and then strong framed individuals coming up rocking the hats making them cool. I remember one time one of the doods who thought he was real cool tried testing my frame and i just basically ignored him straight up doing my thing.
I don't remember doing much game on this trip though, boy am i AFC or what. I remember just drinking and going out to clubs to dance. I felt like my inner game got strengthened (but did alot of drinking), but no outer gaming though. I had major AA issues still.
Nir, was going absolutely crazy this trip. Guy got drunk so bad he had to be taken to the hospital an I had to wake up at like 6am from a night of drinking to pick him up downstairs of the hotel. When i went down to meet up with him, he had thrown up all over his shirt and pants, jeez couldn't he had just lifted his head to throw up elsewhere? Throwing up all over yourself is low value. Nir wasn't having a great trip, he also got billed like 60$ for a bottle of OJ and cranberry juice, getting sick, getting attacked in the club, losing valuables, damn give this guy a break...
Atlantic City Trip 2 was again, a lot of fun. The team consisted of me, Flawless and Nir again. This trip was planned out right before school started. We were gonna meet up with some of Flawless's Frostburg friends, 3 doods.
Boy was this trip a memorable one. I remember frame battles all over the place. People busting out peacocking hats, other people cracking jokes about them and then strong framed individuals coming up rocking the hats making them cool. I remember one time one of the doods who thought he was real cool tried testing my frame and i just basically ignored him straight up doing my thing.
I don't remember doing much game on this trip though, boy am i AFC or what. I remember just drinking and going out to clubs to dance. I felt like my inner game got strengthened (but did alot of drinking), but no outer gaming though. I had major AA issues still.
Nir, was going absolutely crazy this trip. Guy got drunk so bad he had to be taken to the hospital an I had to wake up at like 6am from a night of drinking to pick him up downstairs of the hotel. When i went down to meet up with him, he had thrown up all over his shirt and pants, jeez couldn't he had just lifted his head to throw up elsewhere? Throwing up all over yourself is low value. Nir wasn't having a great trip, he also got billed like 60$ for a bottle of OJ and cranberry juice, getting sick, getting attacked in the club, losing valuables, damn give this guy a break...
Atlantic City Trip 1
Early Jan 2nd: 2-3Days
Me an Flawless took a bus out on a trip to Atlantic City, where we would meet up Nir, another aspiring PUA Carl knew. We had a lot of fun there, I learned so much more about running memorized lines and how to deliver them. There were nights we spent hours preparing the lines we would deliver and how to speak and approach alpha. It was a lot of fun. The things we did to prepare ourselves, most people think are crazy ass ridiculous stuff, but we weren't like most people, we were into the game. I remember doing only one set really in atlantic city. It was during the day. I still had major AA issues, especially in the club scene. This really bothered me, AA in club scenes suck, a waste of $20 covers. First night in AC, i felt horrible, i remember major gas issues with my stomach, i needed some TUMS. I remember having a lot of fun though getting "mad grind" the 2nd night. Afterwards, i realized that grind meant nothing, its just a little tease, afterwards you get nothing out of it, maybe some confidence boost? The third night, saturday, the club had more guys in the club scene and made me feel alot more beta for some reason, not that i was opening in the first place. Man, AA sucks.
Haha, o man, analyzing social dynamics are so fun. I specifically remember eating out at a buffet with the team and a guy named Noel. We were all having a fun time laughing and crackin jokes. I remember Nir saying some lame joke about two doods standing next to each other, one being thin an the other fat, saying they looked lik the number 10 when standing next to each other. Noel immediately said something like: *pause 1-2-3* "Nir, that wasnt funny" *silence* *followed by immediate outbursts of laughter*and i broke out laughing hilariously. AMOG'ing people with weak frames was funny, even within the social circle.
Me an Flawless took a bus out on a trip to Atlantic City, where we would meet up Nir, another aspiring PUA Carl knew. We had a lot of fun there, I learned so much more about running memorized lines and how to deliver them. There were nights we spent hours preparing the lines we would deliver and how to speak and approach alpha. It was a lot of fun. The things we did to prepare ourselves, most people think are crazy ass ridiculous stuff, but we weren't like most people, we were into the game. I remember doing only one set really in atlantic city. It was during the day. I still had major AA issues, especially in the club scene. This really bothered me, AA in club scenes suck, a waste of $20 covers. First night in AC, i felt horrible, i remember major gas issues with my stomach, i needed some TUMS. I remember having a lot of fun though getting "mad grind" the 2nd night. Afterwards, i realized that grind meant nothing, its just a little tease, afterwards you get nothing out of it, maybe some confidence boost? The third night, saturday, the club had more guys in the club scene and made me feel alot more beta for some reason, not that i was opening in the first place. Man, AA sucks.
Haha, o man, analyzing social dynamics are so fun. I specifically remember eating out at a buffet with the team and a guy named Noel. We were all having a fun time laughing and crackin jokes. I remember Nir saying some lame joke about two doods standing next to each other, one being thin an the other fat, saying they looked lik the number 10 when standing next to each other. Noel immediately said something like: *pause 1-2-3* "Nir, that wasnt funny" *silence* *followed by immediate outbursts of laughter*and i broke out laughing hilariously. AMOG'ing people with weak frames was funny, even within the social circle.
The Beginning
In mid December of 2006 at Adams Morgan, sometime right after classes ended was when I first saw game in action. Before I went out with Flawless and MattM to see game in action, I had no idea what game was. I remember feeling amazed and shocked when seeing Flawless approach every set of girls in sight. I never knew it was so easy! It blew my world away how girls were so willing to just talk to strangers, people are... social. I got into the game.
I remember doing my first approach, just asking a girl a simple question. It was horrible. I stood waiting for a group of girls to walk by, and I immediately jumped out in front of them and scared the living shit out of them! Haha. I asked my question, i think it was lik "what time is it" or something and after they realized i wasn't some crazy mugger from the shady alley ways of DC they answered and walked off quickly. Flawless immediately pointed out how bad my approach was and I knew i had a lot to learn.
There were several other nights going out with Flawless since then. MattM sometimes joined us. I learned Ahmed was into the game, I have much more respect for him now.
I ran several sets by now, some of them went pretty well, doing an open-banter-banter and exit. I still had a lot of approach anxiety.
I remember doing my first approach, just asking a girl a simple question. It was horrible. I stood waiting for a group of girls to walk by, and I immediately jumped out in front of them and scared the living shit out of them! Haha. I asked my question, i think it was lik "what time is it" or something and after they realized i wasn't some crazy mugger from the shady alley ways of DC they answered and walked off quickly. Flawless immediately pointed out how bad my approach was and I knew i had a lot to learn.
There were several other nights going out with Flawless since then. MattM sometimes joined us. I learned Ahmed was into the game, I have much more respect for him now.
I ran several sets by now, some of them went pretty well, doing an open-banter-banter and exit. I still had a lot of approach anxiety.
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