another interesting thing happened tonight, on the walk back to my car in DC, some black/african group of 4-5 guys walked up to us drunk and one of them was asking if E_ wanted to fight or box or sumthing, and E_ started antagonizing the fight and seriously wanted to brawl, im thinking "WTF IS THIS GUY THINKING?" we're out numbered, and these guys were like twice the size of us. i saw absolutely no reason for the fight, just E_ antagonizing it. guy got pride issues. all i felt from E_ was negative vibes, i can chill with him just fine cuz E_ is cool in a lot of ways; but there are also a lot of cool people who compliment the lifestyle i want to live, positively.
personally i do not think fighting is the answer for any problems anyone might have, if it means sucking up your pride, then do it, be the fucking man who can take the insults of some low value chump. i'd only fight if the guy lays a hand on me. i feel like if a guy can't find a way to walk away from a physical confrontation, its due to the lack of social skills. dont buy into the frame of the other guy who wants to fight, set up your own reality and walk away, you'll never see him again, so why should it matter? its almost being scared to approach a set you'll never see again, who cares? you got nothing to protect but your pride, be humble and be strong. dont let pride control the life you live, live a life that you can be proud of.
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